Im rude
I am a rude person, or so says anonymous commentor(comment left on my 'in case you wonder why I feel so alone' blog).Apperently I deserve to be alone. Thats awesome.
I am sure that I have been rude at times. I know that I am not perfect, and that I havn't always been perfectly patient and kind. And I apologize to you for my rudeness.
But clearly, bashing me in my blog without saying who you are, is not going to help anything. Im sorry for hurting you(as I am pretty sure I know who you are), maybe I was just having a bad day.
So, if anyone else would like to leave me a comment about why I deserve to be alone, please,at least tell me who the heck you are. If you have a problem with me, that is fine, but unless I know who you are and what Ive done, how can things get resolved?
I am sure that I have been rude at times. I know that I am not perfect, and that I havn't always been perfectly patient and kind. And I apologize to you for my rudeness.
But clearly, bashing me in my blog without saying who you are, is not going to help anything. Im sorry for hurting you(as I am pretty sure I know who you are), maybe I was just having a bad day.
So, if anyone else would like to leave me a comment about why I deserve to be alone, please,at least tell me who the heck you are. If you have a problem with me, that is fine, but unless I know who you are and what Ive done, how can things get resolved?
posted by Lisa @ 7:47 p.m.
4 Comments:
At 8:03 a.m.,
Anonymous said…
just before i said you were rude doesn't mean you deserve to be alone. i dont' belive anyone does. I thought by telling you this you might relaize that maybe you are rude and cranky sometimes and maybe that could be some of the reason why you dont' have a boyfriend.So maybe you should change you attuide and be more positive and stop saying bo ho poor me i dont' have a boyfriend and disrepect you family and friends like they don't matter and just be happy with what you have.
At 11:07 a.m.,
Anonymous said…
no you can't change you problems (cirmenstance) but you can certainly choose to not let it bother you so much and stop dewling on it and praise God for what you have and speak words of encourgement. the bible says to be transformed by the renwening of you mind. Jesus says we must take up our cross and deny ourselves.
At 11:31 a.m.,
Ben said…
Jfishnat, you could stand to follow some of your own advice and speak some words of encourgment. I think when we rebuke someone we are to do it with gentleness. Calling out to someone like that with an anonymous comment isn't the way to go. I had one of those on my own blog. Eph 4:29 says we need to build one another up according to their needs. That is what we need to be doing.
Lisa, I honestly think God has someone special for you in mind and it just hasn't arrived yet. God's timing is perfect. I know that is easy for me to say but it is true. And the Man God has for you will be a blessed one indeed. A very lucky guy.
At 6:04 p.m.,
Lisa said…
First of all, jfishnat, I know that I am cranky sometimes, and this is something that infact, I do try to change that. But please do tru to understand that because of my sleep schedule, I am usually always tired, and not well rested. I realize that isn't always the reason for my crankyness, but sometimes it is.
And furthermore, I try to hand over the husband issue to God everyday. Its not easy. Because I live primarily in a couple world, and because most of the people I love are coupled now. Sheeeesh. I try very hard not to have a poor me attitude. Its just not easy. Because ever since I was just a little girl, all I ever wanted was to get married and have babies. So when that doesnt happen, and you actually have to make career descisions, it makes things more diffucult. But when it comes down to it, I know that I need to trust in God. In fact, in case you havnt read my blog before, you can be hard on me, and rude to me and yell at me and tell me a bad person all you like, but I already know all of this, and I already am not really a big fan of myself. I know I am a bad sister and daughter and friend. So thanks for telling me, but I already know.
And P.S- I actually do have a boyfriend.
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